10 Signs That You’re Ready for Sex
How to Know the Right Time to Have Sex for the First Time
From Holly Ashworth, former About.com Guide
1. You Know All the Risks
2. You Know How to Prevent Those Risks
Pop quiz: what’s the best tool for preventing STDs and pregnancy? Are you afraid to talk to your sweetie about the L-word? (You know – lube?) Before you do anything, make sure you read these tips about safe sex.
3. You’ve Got a Plan If You or Your Sweetie Gets Pregnant
4. You’re Being Legal
Check the age of consent chart to make sure that you and your partner can legally have sex in your state. If you can’t do it legally, then don’t. The law is there for a reason: to protect you and your partner from what might end up to be a bad idea, emotionally and mentally.
5. You’re Both Sober
Drinking impairs your judgment, making you more likely to do something you’ll regret the next day. If you’re drunk, you’re also less likely to use a condom, or to use it the right way.
6. You Trust Your Partner
When you’re in a position where someone can have sex with you, you’re totally vulnerable. If you have any doubts about how your sweetie will treat you during sex – and the next day, and the day after that – trust your gut and get away from them now.
7. You’re OK With Having Your Partner in Your Life Forever
This doesn’t mean you’re not allowed to break up. But if something happens – like a pregnancy or an STD – you might have to be in each other’s lives a lot longer than you planned.
8. You’re Doing It For YOU
9. No pressure
You can say no it any time before you have sex – even the second before it – no matter what you’ve said in the past. It’s your body, and you alone are in charge of what happens to it. You have to let you go and enjoy this special moment.
10. You can try it virtually first
You may give a try on webcam first to feel the complicity with your partner and then you’ll be more confortable when it will be the right time for you to go on in real.